Sometimes you will find yourself in a situation that you
don’t want to be in, however, you must face the situation and continue moving
forward. The situation may concern having a horrible childhood, not getting a
promotion at work, or a dispute with the new neighbor. Nevertheless, you must
not dwell on things and are beyond your control, instead focus on things you
can change. You cannot change a childhood, so you must forgive your parents and
focus on changing your future. This way, future generations will not continue
the abuse or neglect that you felt as a child.
The promotion at work was given to a younger person, who may
not have had as many years with the company as you have. However, this is
beyond your control and the person who got the promotion may have a college
degree that you don’t have. In this situation, you must continue to do the job
that you’re given or find another place of employment. Either way, you must
forgive your boss and the person who got the promotion, if you have gotten
angry about the situation or angry with both parties.
Furthermore, you can work hard and take some college
courses, which may guarantee that you will not be passed over whenever the next
promotion takes place. If you have a dispute with your new neighbor, you must
try to dissolve this dispute in a civil yet timely manner. Unfortunately, some
people are impossible to deal with and that will not come to any kind of
compromise. So therefore, try to stop the argument, by producing all documents
that show your land line or what the argument was about. Additionally, you must
forgive you neighbor and move forward in solving the issue at hand.
Sometimes this means,
you must compromise or even seek legal advice on solving the problem. However,
you must forgive your neighbor, if you get angry with him and let God handle
the situation. Don’t let yourself stay in a pity party, instead get up and
change your situation. Sometimes you are going to come across situations that
you can’t change. Therefore, you must learn to pray and give your problems to
God, because he is only one who can change the situation. Don’t be a negative
person, because of something that was done to you, which was beyond your
control. Additionally, get over it and dwell on things that can change your
situation, while helping you move forward in your life.
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